Sunday, 8 March 2015

Week 8-9, Interpersonal Communication

First of all, What is Interpersonal communication?
Interpersonal means communication between sender and receiver
For example, Ali is talking with Abu.
 There are 5 step in a conversation process

1. Opening - The first step to start a conversation. Exp: 'Hello!' 'Wassup man!'
2. Feed forward - The second step of conversation;
to open the channels of communication "nice day, isn't?" &
  preview future message "Hey, I have some good news to tell you..."
 3. Business - The third stage and the 'message' portion.
4.Feedback - The fourth stage and response stage.
"Thank you for telling me the bad news..."
5. Closing -The last stage; "Goodbye", "See ya!","Ciao!"

 There are three principle of conversation which is
Principle of turn-taking, Principle of dialogue and Principle of immediacy.
Principle of turning-taking is the exchange roles of between speakers and listeners.
Principle of dialogue is a context where two person share messages to one another and is indicates an interaction rather than just a conversation.
Principle of immediacy is the creation of closeness, a sense of togetherness, of oneness between speaker and listener.

There are also small talk, excuses, apologies, complimenting and advice in our daily conversation.
We also learn about the relationship stages and theories .
There are six stages which is contact, involvement, intimacy, deterioration, repair and dissolution

Contact is the first stage all stages, it is perceptual and interactional context take place.
For example, Hey, I'm John.
The second stage is involvement, where the people tighter bond and engagements with one another.
At this point, both testing and intensifying take place.
For example, Do want to go out with me?
The third stage is intimacy where people have a deep and committed relationship with one another.
Interpersonal commitment and social bonding will be take place and you will become comfort as well as familiar with each other such as when you having a relationship your lover.
The fourth stage is deterioration which means that other communication factor such as temporal, cultural or societal context weakness the bond with one another.
Repairing is the fifth stages which is trying to work things out with one another.
For example, talk with the people involve and discuss about the issues.
The sixth stage and the last stage of relationship where bonds are broken or returned back to a platonic. At this stage, interpersonal and social separation takes place.
For instance, you may not see each other anymore or may not return the messages that have been sent to him or her.
After that, Sir wanted us to do a role play and my team make the whole class gone wild!
haha
Thank you. =)


 
 

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